{"id":421,"date":"2019-08-21T10:41:08","date_gmt":"2019-08-21T08:41:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.marketasmalcova.com\/?p=421"},"modified":"2021-07-22T22:02:42","modified_gmt":"2021-07-22T20:02:42","slug":"sila-slov","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marketasmalcova.com\/?p=421","title":{"rendered":"S\u00edla slov"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Slovo\u2026ji\u017e ten\nsouzvuk p\u00edsmen ladn\u011b st\u00e9kaj\u00edc\u00ed po jazyku, m\u016f\u017ee m\u00edt v sob\u011b s<\/strong>\u00edlu,\nl<\/strong>askavost,\no<\/strong>pravdovost,\nv<\/strong>\u00e1\u0161e\u0148\ni o<\/strong>riginalitu,\nale z\u00e1rove\u0148 tak\u00e9 s<\/strong>urovost, l<\/strong>stivost, o<\/strong>povr\u017een\u00ed, v<\/strong>ulgaritu a o<\/strong>trockost. Slovo m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt slab\u00e9\ni siln\u00e9, kr\u00e1sn\u00e9 i o\u0161kliv\u00e9, hlubok\u00e9 \u010di plytk\u00e9, v\u00e1\u0161niv\u00e9 i vla\u017en\u00e9. Slova maj\u00ed\nneskute\u010dn\u00fd potenci\u00e1l. A pr\u00e1v\u011b proto jsou stejnou m\u011brou \u017e\u00e1douc\u00ed i ne\u017e\u00e1douc\u00ed. My\nlid\u00e9 se o n\u011b na jedn\u00e9 stran\u011b do krve h\u00e1d\u00e1me a na stran\u011b druh\u00e9 si je\nz hloubi sv\u00e9ho srdce p\u0159ejeme sly\u0161et. \u017de slova um\u00ed ni\u010dit i tvo\u0159it je zn\u00e1m\u00e1\npravda. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Poslouch\u00e1m svou\nmalou nete\u0159, jak nad svou prvn\u00ed pl\u00e1t\u011bnou kn\u00ed\u017ekou roztomile \u017evatl\u00e1 sv\u00e9 prvn\u00ed\nhl\u00e1sky jako \u201eko\u0165o\u201c a \u201e\u0165o\u0165o\u0165o\u201c a p\u0159ekvapuje m\u011b, kolik se z nich d\u00e1 vy\u010d\u00edst.\nNa prvn\u00ed poslech je patrn\u00e9, \u017ee ten mal\u00fd tvore\u010dek, kter\u00fd slova je\u0161t\u011b moc\nneovl\u00e1d\u00e1, si je velmi dob\u0159e v\u011bdom toho, co \u0159\u00edk\u00e1.  Hol\u00e9 slovo je toti\u017e bez emoc\u00ed, intonace a, v p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b\nv\u011bt, interpunkce, pouze jen slovo. Slabounk\u00e9 bezbrann\u00e9 slovo, kter\u00e9 sice m\u016f\u017ee\nevokovat dojem, ov\u0161em neucelen\u00fd. Slovo bez \u201ep\u0159\u00edslu\u0161enstv\u00ed\u201c je jako neosolen\u00fd\nkynut\u00fd kol\u00e1\u010d, kter\u00fd kdy\u017e ochutn\u00e1me, n\u011bjak chutn\u00e1, ale nen\u00ed to ono, a bez soli\nnikdy nebude. Tak\u00e9 hol\u00e9 slovo bez p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhu n\u011bjak vypad\u00e1, tv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed se, nab\u00e1d\u00e1\nk p\u0159edstav\u00e1m, ov\u0161em bez d\u0159\u00edve zm\u00edn\u011bn\u00e9ho emo\u010dn\u00edho koktejlu nem\u00e1 tu spr\u00e1vnou\nv\u00e1hu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

V \u010dem tedy\nspo\u010d\u00edv\u00e1 s\u00edla slov? Jejich s\u00edla je obvykle postavena na t\u0159ech z\u00e1kladn\u00edch\npil\u00ed\u0159\u00edch. Jednak je to situace, v jak\u00e9 jsou vyslovena, pak je to zp\u016fsob,\njak\u00fdm jsou vyslovena a do t\u0159etice z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed rovn\u011b\u017e na tom, jak jsou vn\u00edm\u00e1na\ndruh\u00fdmi. \u010clov\u011bk m\u016f\u017ee m\u00edt toti\u017e sebelep\u0161\u00ed \u00famysl a myslet vy\u0159\u010den\u00e1 slova v\u00e1\u017en\u011b a\nup\u0159\u00edmn\u011b, ale pokud je druh\u00e1 strana, kter\u00e9 jsou slova ur\u010dena, hluch\u00e1, neotev\u0159en\u00e1\na nep\u0159\u00edstupn\u00e1, vyjde cel\u00e1 c\u00edlen\u00e1 snaha vnive\u010d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Zamysleme se te\u010f\nna on\u011bmi t\u0159emi z\u00e1klady, kter\u00e9 jsou pro \u201e\u017eivot a n\u00e1boj\u201c slova tak d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9. Jak\njsem ji\u017e zm\u00ednila, z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na situaci. Vezm\u011bme si kup\u0159\u00edkladu slovo \u201epromi\u0148te\u201c.\nJist\u011b n\u00e1m nen\u00ed ciz\u00ed n\u00e1sleduj\u00edc\u00ed situace: jedeme p\u0159epln\u011bnou tramvaj\u00ed nebo metrem\na nez\u0159\u00eddka se st\u00e1v\u00e1, \u017ee n\u00e1s n\u011bkdo bodne holov\u00fdm de\u0161tn\u00edkem do boku, dupne n\u00e1m\njehlov\u00fdm podpatkem na nohu v sand\u00e1lu, vytla\u010d\u00ed nebo vtla\u010d\u00ed n\u00e1s tam, kam nechceme\natd. V t\u00e9to chv\u00edli by m\u011blo zazn\u00edt ono \u201epromi\u0148te\u201c v r\u016fzn\u00fdch\nvariant\u00e1ch, co\u017e se ve v\u011bt\u0161in\u011b p\u0159\u00edpad\u016f tak\u00e9 st\u00e1v\u00e1. Do ve\u010dera v\u0161ak na takov\u00e9\n\u201epromi\u0148te\u201c zapomeneme. Pak jsou situace, kdy \u201epromi\u0148te\u201c m\u00e1 p\u0159ece jen o n\u011bco\ndel\u0161\u00ed trv\u00e1n\u00ed. Stane se n\u00e1m t\u0159eba k\u0159ivda. N\u011bkdo n\u00e1s nespravedliv\u011b obvin\u00ed ze\nzanedb\u00e1n\u00ed povinnost\u00ed. Po \u0161et\u0159en\u00ed se ale uk\u00e1\u017ee, \u017ee k ni\u010demu takov\u00e9mu\nnedo\u0161lo a op\u011bt p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed na \u0159adu \u201epromi\u0148te\u201c. Toto u\u017e si pamatujme dob\u0159e, proto\u017ee\nto n\u011bjak\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem naru\u0161ilo na\u0161e ego a dosavad celkem bezkonfliktn\u011b plynouc\u00ed\npracovn\u00ed \u017eivot obecn\u011b. Situace je to nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e1, ale za n\u011bjak\u00fd \u010das, u n\u011bkter\u00fdch\nz n\u00e1s, k\u0159ivda tak\u00e9 p\u0159ejde, ale i \u201epromi\u0148te\u201c vejde v zapomn\u011bn\u00ed. Pak\nexistuj\u00ed situace, kdy \u201epromi\u0148te\u201c b\u00fdv\u00e1 sice vysloveno, ale bohu\u017eel akor\u00e1t sype\ndo r\u00e1ny s\u016fl. Jedn\u00e1 se o p\u0159\u00edpady, kdy je natolik naru\u0161en \u017eivot druh\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka,\n\u017ee slov\u00ed\u010dko \u201epromi\u0148\u201c m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt ryze z\u00e1sadn\u00ed, ale tak\u00e9 absurdn\u011b zbyte\u010dn\u00e9,\nv mysli zachov\u00e1no, ale i okam\u017eit\u011b zapomenuto a nevysly\u0161eno, jako je tomu\nv p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b zavin\u011bn\u00e9 smrti \u010di jin\u00e9ho ne\u0161t\u011bst\u00ed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Zp\u016fsob vy\u0159\u010den\u00ed\nslov pat\u0159\u00ed k z\u00e1sadn\u00edm. U\u017e jen oby\u010dejn\u00fd pozdrav \u201eDobr\u00fd den!\u201c by se dal \u0159\u00edci\nmnoha zp\u016fsoby. Schv\u00e1ln\u011b, kolik jsme ka\u017ed\u00fd b\u011bhem sv\u00e9ho \u017eivota sly\u0161eli druh\u016f\n\u201edobr\u00e9ho dne\u201c? Je to pozdrav, kter\u00fd dok\u00e1\u017ee lidem navodit dobrou i \u0161patnou\nn\u00e1ladu a v\u00e9st k zamy\u0161len\u00ed, jak \u010dlov\u011bk slova v\u016fbec vn\u00edm\u00e1. V n\u011bkter\u00fdch\np\u0159\u00edpadech jako by emoce s ka\u017ed\u00fdm p\u00edsmenkem visely ve vzduchu. Jinak \u0159\u00edk\u00e1\n\u201eDobr\u00fd den!\u201c rozt\u0159esen\u00fdm hlasem zuba\u0159i pacient se zan\u00edcen\u00fdm zubem, jinak \u201eDobr\u00fd\nden!\u201c zase j\u00edzliv\u00e1 z\u00e1vistiv\u00e1 sousedka, kter\u00e9 se na zahrad\u011b urodily men\u0161\u00ed\nnarcisy, ne\u017e jsou soused\u010diny. Vy\u010derpan\u00fd \u201eDobr\u00fd den!\u201c lze sly\u0161et posledn\u00ed den\nmo\u017enosti pod\u00e1n\u00ed da\u0148ov\u00e9ho p\u0159izn\u00e1n\u00ed na finan\u010dn\u00edm \u00fa\u0159ad\u011b a otr\u00e1ven\u00fd \u201eDobr\u00fd den!\u201c zase\nv obchod\u011b, kde se nem\u016f\u017eeme rozhodnout, zda je lep\u0161\u00ed \u010derven\u00e1 nebo modr\u00e1\nhoubi\u010dka na n\u00e1dob\u00ed, zat\u00edmco prodava\u010dce pr\u00e1v\u011b za\u010dala doba poledn\u00ed pauzy. A tak\nby se dalo pokra\u010dovat je\u0161t\u011b celou \u0159adou p\u0159\u00edklad\u016f. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A pak tu m\u00e1me\npohled \u010dlov\u011bka, kter\u00e9mu jsou slova ur\u010dena. P\u0159ijme na\u0161e \u201epromi\u0148\u201c? Jak jsme si\njist\u011b v\u011bdomi, nez\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed to jenom na jedn\u00e9 stran\u011b. Vyc\u00edt\u00ed-li prot\u011bj\u0161ek, \u017ee na\u0161e\n\u201epromi\u0148\u201c p\u00e1chne neup\u0159\u00edmnost\u00ed, ani na okam\u017eik se nebude rozm\u00fd\u0161let, zda ho\nakceptovat, \u010di nikoli. Av\u0161ak \u201epromi\u0148\u201c obt\u00ed\u017een\u00e9 vinou a zk\u0159ehl\u00e9 dusivou\nsebel\u00edtost\u00ed m\u00e1 na \u010dlov\u011bka ozdravuj\u00edc\u00ed vliv protkan\u00fd tenk\u00fdmi pavu\u010dinkami\nzadostiu\u010din\u011bn\u00ed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00a0dne\u0161n\u00ed evropsk\u00e9 a sv\u011btov\u00e9 situaci existuje ov\u0161em jedno slovo, kter\u00e9 m\u00e1 obzvl\u00e1\u0161\u0165 siln\u00fd n\u00e1boj a kter\u00e9 by \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka nem\u011blo nechat chladn\u00fdm. Slovo, p\u0159i jeho\u017e vysloven\u00ed se odhal\u00ed nejnitern\u011bj\u0161\u00ed povaha \u010dlov\u011bka. Slovo, kter\u00e9 vyb\u00edz\u00ed k\u00a0okam\u017eit\u00e9 reakci, a pokud v\u00a0lidsk\u00e9m srdci pulzuje ona karm\u00ednov\u00e1 m\u00edza bez n\u00e1znaku kamenn\u00e9ho zne\u010di\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed, mus\u00ed b\u00fdt nutn\u011b vysly\u0161eno. Je spr\u00e1vn\u00e9 na n\u011bj reagovat, i kdy\u017e se jedn\u00e1 o potenci\u00e1ln\u00ed \u201enep\u0159\u00e1tele n\u00e1roda ohro\u017euj\u00edc\u00ed na\u0161\u00ed kulturu?\u201c Nebo je snad jednodu\u0161\u0161\u00ed b\u00fdt hluch\u00fdmi? \u201ePomoc!\u201c se oz\u00fdv\u00e1 nejen z v\u00e1lkou zb\u00edda\u010den\u00fdch zem\u00ed. \u201eV\u017edy\u0165 to se t\u00fdk\u00e1 st\u00e1tu, co j\u00e1 s\u00a0t\u00edm?\u201c a \u201eA\u0165 oni si to vy\u0159e\u0161\u00ed.\u201c I takov\u00e9 b\u00fdvaj\u00ed n\u011bkdy reakce na ono zoufal\u00e9 zvol\u00e1n\u00ed. V\u00a0tu chv\u00edli by m\u011bla zas\u00e1hnout \u201epan\u00ed Empatie\u201c, kter\u00e1 se v\u00a0\u017eivot\u011b \u010dlov\u011bka ocitne p\u0159irozen\u011b, nebo pomoc\u00ed snahy, kterou mus\u00edme probudit v\u00a0na\u0161em nitru. Jen si to uv\u011bdomme. Kdyby n\u00e1s, nebo na\u0161e d\u011bti, rodinu, n\u011bkdo ohro\u017eoval na \u017eivot\u011b, nepolo\u017eili bychom za vysly\u0161en\u00ed onoho v\u00fdk\u0159iku \u201ePomoc!\u201c, kter\u00fd se tak zoufale dere z\u00a0b\u00eddn\u00e9 temnoty na sv\u011btlo, sv\u016fj vlastn\u00ed \u017eivot? Nakolik jsme ochotni vlo\u017eit do on\u00e9 nad\u011bje vpu\u0161t\u011bn\u00e9 do nezn\u00e1ma sebe sama? V\u017edy je t\u0159eba riskovat. Mo\u017en\u00e1 n\u00e1s n\u011bkdo usly\u0161\u00ed, mo\u017en\u00e1 ne, ale v\u00a0ka\u017ed\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b je velmi nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9 neust\u00e1le \u017e\u00edt ve strachu, \u017ee lid\u00e9 budou hlu\u0161\u00ed a oto\u010d\u00ed se k\u00a0na\u0161\u00ed v\u00fdzv\u011b z\u00e1dy. Kdo unese prohru takov\u00e9ho r\u00e1zu? Nemus\u00edme ale zab\u00edhat a\u017e do extr\u00e9mn\u00edch situac\u00ed. V\u017edy\u0165 kdy\u017e se rozhl\u00e9dneme kolem sebe, uvid\u00edme na ka\u017ed\u00e9m rohu n\u011bkoho, kdo, by\u0165 ml\u010dky, pros\u00ed o ciz\u00ed pomoc. Nen\u00ed um\u011bn\u00ed vn\u00edmat slovo \u201epomoc\u201c pouze u\u0161ima. Ale um\u011bt v\u00a0n\u011bm naj\u00edt skute\u010dnou hloubku a d\u016fvod jeho existence, to u\u017e um\u011bn\u00ed je, ale takov\u00e9, kter\u00e9 se d\u00e1 nau\u010dit, co\u017e je p\u0159inejmen\u0161\u00edm velmi dobr\u00e9 znamen\u00ed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kdo m\u016f\u017ee \u0159\u00edct, \u017ee si zaslou\u017eil m\u00edr, nebo \u017ee\nse narodil v rodin\u011b, kde blahobyt a zdrav\u00ed b\u00fdv\u00e1 \u017e\u00e1douc\u00edm a samoz\u0159ejm\u00fdm\ndarem? Kdo m\u016f\u017ee \u0159\u00edct, \u017ee nikdy nebude pot\u0159ebovat pomoc? A komu je slovo \u201epomoc\u201c\nlhostejn\u00e9? Ned\u011blejme ze sebe frajery. Nezacp\u00e1vejme si nikdy u\u0161i, kdy\u017e ho\nusly\u0161\u00edme, proto\u017ee ono n\u00e1m, navzdory na\u0161\u00ed touze ho zahlu\u0161it,\nbude zn\u00edt v u\u0161\u00edch jako neutlumiteln\u00e9 ohlu\u0161uj\u00edc\u00ed srdce zvonu a\u017e do konce\nna\u0161eho \u017eivota.  <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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